
My Child Doesn’t Talk About His Feelings: How Art Therapy Can Help
Does your child avoid talking about their feelings? π€ Many parents worry when they see their children withdraw, not express emotions, or simply respond with “I don’t know” when asked how they are.
Lack of emotional communication isn’t just a “childhood thing.” It can be a sign that your child needs a safe space to express themselves. This is whereArt Therapybecomes a powerful tool.
Why do some children find it difficult to talk about what they feel?
- Lack of wordsMany children have not yet developed the emotional vocabulary to explain what they feel.
- Fear of judgment: They fear being misunderstood or criticized.
- Internal blockages: Difficult or traumatic experiences can inhibit verbal expression.
How Art Therapy Breaks Down These Barriers
Art Therapy uses drawing, painting, sculpture and other creative forms as an alternative language. According to theAmerican Art Therapy Association, this process helps children to resolve conflicts, reduce stress, improve self-esteem and express feelings that are difficult to verbalize.
Simply put: When children cannot speak,They can paint, model or draw what they feel.
Practical examples of techniques used in therapy
- Free drawing π¨
- The child chooses what he wants to represent.
- Allows unconscious emotions to surface without pressure.
- The child chooses what he wants to represent.
- The Squiggle Game βοΈ
- Widely used with young children, the therapist and child complete a scribble together to turn it into a shape.
- It fosters trust and opens the door to emotional conversations.
- Widely used with young children, the therapist and child complete a scribble together to turn it into a shape.
- Creating an βEmotion Mapβ with colors π
- Colors are associated with feelings (e.g. red = anger, blue = sadness).
- The child paints how he feels today, without needing words.
- Colors are associated with feelings (e.g. red = anger, blue = sadness).
Benefits for your child
β Greater ease in expressing difficult emotions.
β Reduction of anxiety and frustration from not being able to communicate what you feel.
β Improved parent-child relationship by opening new channels of communication.
β Development of self-esteem and self-knowledge.
Tips for parents at home
Although art therapy should be guided by a professional, you can encourage communication at home with small gestures:
- Always provide paper and colors so your child can express themselves.
- Don’t judge his drawings; listen to what he wants to share.
- Validate their emotions: βI see you painted with a lot of black, do you want to tell me what it means to you?β
Conclusion
If you notice that your child does not talk about his feelings,Don’t take it as rebellion or simple shynessIt can be your way of reaching out for help. Art Therapy provides a safe, creative, and liberating space for communication and healing.
π In Golden Phoenix Mental Health. Our specialists use art as a bridge between your child’s inner world and the dialogue with you.
β “If you think your child could benefit from art therapy, schedule an initial consultation with our team. We’re here to help them express themselves and grow happily.”